How I Became the Favorite Wife in My Polygamous Marriage: A True Story from Uganda

My name is Rose Namatovu, and I come from Jinja, Uganda. I’m 35 years old and a proud mother of three. I’ve been married for almost 12 years, and like many women in polygamous unions, I’ve endured many challenges—heartache, neglect, and many sleepless nights. But the past three years tested me like never before. I’m sharing my experience not only to express gratitude to those who stood by me but also to inspire other women feeling lost and powerless in their marriages.

Three years ago, my husband married a second wife. At first, I stayed calm and composed, telling myself that I was his first wife and mother to his children, so nothing would come between us. Unfortunately, I was wrong. Gradually, my husband changed. He began spending more nights with the other wife, came home late, barely spoke to me, and sometimes completely ignored me. The love we once had felt like a fading memory. What hurt the most was how he started treating our children—as if they were strangers in their own home. To Read More, Tap Here