Why Your Desire Vanished!! 7 Hidden Blocks to Emotional, Energetic & Spiritual Intimacy

When Intimacy Feels Like Obligation Instead of Inspiration

There was a time when intimacy stirred a gentle warmth inside you—a sense of welcome, a beckoning that made your heart flutter and your body respond with eager anticipation. But now, that invitation feels withdrawn. You might notice a flicker of worry in your partner’s gaze. You might sense a numbness in your own skin or a fog settling over your thoughts. What once felt like soulful connection now seems to echo only weariness.

Therapist and relationship expert Dr. Laura Berman often identifies the primary reasons for dwindling desire: loss of connection to innate yearning, pressure to perform instead of feel, lack of emotional safety, the crush of everyday duties, and unhealed past wounds (as discussed in the referenced YourTango article). Each psychological factor reflects a deeper energetic truth—a blocked chakra or muted inner frequency. These aren't signs of brokenness but of protection, calling for intention, care, and truthful presence to rekindle what was never truly lost.. To Read More, Tap Here