Why Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend Suddenly Lose Interest in You and How to Overcome It

For many people in Nairobi and other towns in Kenya, love can feel unpredictable. One moment, your partner seems fully committed, loving, and attentive, and the next, they become distant, cold, or lose interest without warning.

This was exactly what happened to Anne, a young woman from Thika. She could not understand why her boyfriend, whom she loved deeply, began withdrawing from her, leaving her confused and heartbroken.

Anne tried everything she could think of. She called him often, sent messages, bought gifts, and even changed how she behaved around him. Nothing seemed to work.

Her boyfriend became increasingly distant, spending less time with her and avoiding meaningful conversations. Anne began to feel desperate and blamed herself for his sudden coldness, yet deep inside, she felt something invisible was affecting their bond.

Weeks passed, and Anne’s heartbreak grew heavier. Friends offered advice—telling her to move on, focus on herself, or find someone else—but she could not stop thinking about the relationship she wanted to save.

She needed answers beyond what ordinary advice could provide. Something told her this situation was not only about emotions or misunderstandings.

The turning point came when Anne visited her elder cousin in Kikuyu. During their conversation, she shared everything—the withdrawal, the lack of affection, and the fear that her relationship was ending.

Her cousin listened patiently and then told her something that changed her perspective entirely. She explained that sudden loss of..To read more, tap here